So tonight I went over to TheGirl's place. Since the ex hasn't been served papers yet she thinks it's safe to hang out at her place. It had been about a week and a half since we were last intimate. Boy did we need it. Every tense moment that we've felt the last couple of weeks melted away. Whatever happens with this divorce that she says will be a war I don't care. I love her, and I'm staying by her side.