My friend blurted out, in a moment of truth, that she has a crush on me -- she said it yesterday -- sad thing is I don�t feel that way towards her.

How come this happens all the time -- that I will have a crush on someone who doesn't have a crush on me, and that someone I don't have a crush on will have a crush on me? How the hell does anyone find anyone if this seems to happen all the time -- or is it that it happens only to me. Maybe that's it.