I'm putting my foot down and telling my ex-friend to take a flying leap. She's been calling me, but only when she needs me to help her with something -- I hate that crap.

It's funny because I spoke to her mom today and she asked me why all her (my ex-friend's) friends won't pick up the phone when she calls them. I didn't tell her what I think -- which is basically that her daughter (my ex-friend) is a fair-weather friend that only seeks her "friends" out when she needs something from them -- and how a friendship with her leaves you feeling used -- and how she's bound to ask for 20 favors, but as soon as you ask her for one she ignores you -- and how she never gives of herself, but does suck the life out of everyone around her.

Yeah, those are the reasons -- but there are more. I don't want to bore you, since these cover the majority of the bases.